Does penis size matter?

The majority of women are not concerned with the size of their partners penis.  Of course there are a small number who prefer it to be on the large side, (just as some men are drawn to enormous breasts), but these tend to be females who are sexually aggressive.  In general, ladies are more interested in the whole package. The appearance is of much more importance, it should be clean and smell nice.
            The national average measurements for male genitals are, 5.9 inches in length (erect) and 5.5 inches in girth (erect).  When asked for their preference, most females stated around this size. To be truthful any penis will excite a woman. The dimensions of a phallus have no relation to the pleasure it can give to the partner or man himself. Neither does it affect the ability to maintain an erection.  Performance always depends on the muscles, blood and the nerve supply to the reproductive organs.  If you are worried that you are at the extremes, (too large or too small), during intercourse the vagina will adapt to most size penises.  Only one third, which is approximately 4cm’s of the vaginal canal, contains sensory nerves, and that’s without mentioning the clitoris.
            The main problem for males is their confidence level.  Just as the opposite sex feels less desirable if they have small breasts, men feel the same if they are lacking in the genital department.  Women are incredibly turned on by sexual confidence.  If men can create mind over matter, and exude confidence, their partner would not even notice his penis size as she would be too swept away in the moment.
            The most obvious fact is the importance of how you use it.  You may have the most perfect penis in the world, but if you don’t know how to please a lady it doesn’t matter.  To climax, the female sex need to be stimulated both physically and mentally.  If you feel you are not well endowed, spend longer on the foreplay.  Learn to express yourself in different ways, change positions, use different speeds, angles and pressures……tease.  What women enjoy is the variation in the experience not the variation in size. So don’t ever think that you won’t enjoy the best of life’s experiences, because you have not been blessed in certain aspects.  Don’t let your penis take over your mind when in bed.
            To get more insight into the female preference we interviewed Claire Dunnes.  She runs Anne Summers parties which sell sex toys.  The most popular vibrators sold at these parties are between the lengths of 5.5-6 inches.  Claire is usually left with an abundance of the large vibrator stock at the end of the year. The ladies who tend to buy the enormous ones are usually purchasing them for a hen party.  If that doesn’t ease your mind nothing will.
            Another interesting fact, women with ‘bigger’ men, found some positions uncomfortable, and couldn’t give felatio properly.
            If you are still concerned, please talk to a health care adviser or Doctor.  Never be embarrassed, they deal with this topic all the time, and remember:

“It’s not the wand, it’s the magician”.

On the flip side the size does matter for both sexes.  Some females are considerably turned off by a small penis. The reason for this is two fold. Firstly, they find a large penis more visually pleasing. Women are excited by the sheer sight of it. The second reason, women like the feeling of “being filled up”.  When long in length, the phallus is more likely to hit the uterus at the end of the vagina.  This is extremely pleasing during intercourse.
            Girth is of even more importance to women. It was the most mentioned when it came to stating their preferences.  Again the visual aspect came into it. Most common was the dislike of seeing or handling an extremely thin penis.  A wide girth has many benefits during intercourse.  It stimulates the G. spot, which is located about two inches inside the vagina wall.  The nerves that are located near the vaginal entrance are also stimulated.  A big girth has the ability to stretch the vagina walls, creating friction and sensations that most women love.
            Size does matter immensely to men.  It does not matter if he is told that he is normal, if he believes he is inadequate, and then he is.  Women with small breasts can sympathies with this feeling. Their partners can constantly tell them how perfect their breasts are, but it doesn’t change what they feel inside. The same for men with genital issues.  Both of these cases show a strong lack of confidence.  If the male lacks self-assurance, it will come through in his performance, as he won’t be able to let go and feel uninhibited.  He will always be wondering, “Does she think it’s big enough?”  This therefore affects both partners, as she will feel his apprehension.  So again, size does matter.
            Men who are well endowed ooze sexual confidence.  Sandy Thomson, 27, regularly goes to watch her brother’s football team.  Two of the players have been blessed in the nether regions, and get their penises out at any opportunity.  They run around naked to amuse others, and are always the first in the showers.  They are very flamboyant characters.  Sandy said she found their confidence in their bodies a very attractive quality. She also stated that they were always surrounded by women.
            So to conclude size is of great importance to both sexes, even if it is only in the mind. For women, it heightens the effects of their sexual experience, both mentally and physically. The issue is greater for the men, as it affects their confidence. If they are well endowed they have a more audacious manner. If they have a small penis, the only way around it is acceptance.  Whether this can be obtained through positive thinking or therapy is down to the individual.  If the man believes that he has a problem, no matter how many times he is told size doesn’t matter;

To him it does.

 

Tips

Always keep the pubic hair trimmed short on
the penis and ball area. This gives the
illusion of a larger shaft.

If you are overweight, make an effort to loose it. 
Rolls of flesh hanging over the genital area will
give the appearance of a smaller penis to you when
you are looking down upon it.